Never Rarely Sometimes Always

Autumn (Sidney Flanigan) leads an ordinary and uneventful life in Northumberland, Pennsylvania. She plays the guitar and sings, but her artistic skills are challenged when she’s insulted on stage. She has a family and a boyfriend, but neither one is either kind or supportive. One day, Autumn is faced with a very unexpected and unwanted pregnancy. She challenges the doctor: “is there any chance that the positive result is wrong?”, only to be told, “no; a positive is always a positive”.

She works in a supermarket with her cousin Skylar (Talia Ryder), the only person on which she can count. At first, she attempts a self-induced abortion by drinking toxic substances and punching her own abdomen (to the point of covering herself with shocking bruises). She then decides to travel to New York, since Pennsylvania law requires her parents’ consent for a termination, and she wishes to keep her pregnancy secret. Skylar steals some money from the tills, and the two girls embark on a short journey to the City that Never Sleeps, in the hope to return home without the unwanted child inside Autumn’s womb, thereby resuming their lives as normal.

Autumn is quiet, almost laconic. She is unable to convey her emotions in detail, and instead just internalises her pain. The film’s most crucial moment is when a New York doctor confronts her about her health, sex life and relationship to her boyfriend and family. She has to choose between “never”, “rarely”, “sometimes” or “always” when asked questions about psychological and physical violence. She isn’t always able to verbalise the answer, but the responses are written on her face. Autumn has experienced abuse.

Never Rarely Sometimes Always is as close as it gets to an American version of Christian Mungiu’s 4 Months 3 Weeks 2 Days, which won the Palme d’Or in Cannes in 2007. Both protagonists are young and naive, confronted with a bureaucratic establishment unwilling to support them. In this sense, Ceaușescu’s Romania isn’t too different from present day US. Despite certain types of abortion being legal in the US, young and vulnerable women and teens have to grapple with an onerous and expensive insurance system, Both films are also rather graphic, with details of the procedure made very clear. Neither movie, however, is exploitative.

Hittman has created yet another auspicious drama – alongside with 2018’s Beach Rats – about a despondent young person dealing with the consequences of sex. The 41-year-old New York director has smoothly sailed from firmly male into resolutely female waters. She’s successful at both attempts. She keeps a respectable distance from her characters, allowing the action to unfold in a realistic pace. The outcome is neither fetishised nor sanitised. They are just young people full of doubts and dilemmas, and prepared to resort to extreme measures in order to rectify their lives.

Never Rarely Sometimes Always showed in Competition at the 70th Berlinale, when this piece was originally written. It won the Silver Bear. It’s out on VoD On Wednesday, May 13th.

Beach Rats

It’s New York, it’s Summer and it’s sultry. The tarmac is sizzling, and the pavement scorching hot. And so are the libidos of young men. Frankie (Harris Dickinson) is no exception. The problem is that he is very confused about his sexuality. The extremely attractive young male is dating an equally stunning female called Simone (Madeline Weinstein, who’s not related to the now infamous Harvey), and he hangs out with young straight men of his age. She struggles to have sex with her, and instead fulfils his sexual needs through online gay chat rooms and stealthy sexual encounters with older men.

This sounds like an ordinary predicament, familiar to many gay men. There’s nothing unusual about a teenager grappling with his sexuality. What makes Beach Rats so special is director’s sensitive gaze, and the very realistic and relatable settings. The young female filmmaker Eliza Hittman, who’s only on her second feature, managed to penetrate (no pun intended) a male and testosterone-fueled territory to very convincing results. The film is neither exploitative nor sanitised. Sex is uncomfortable and awkward: both the failed attempts with Simone and the quick interactions with older men (in their places, or even in the woods at night). Frankie is a treat for the online pundits: he’s “scally” with a touch of sweetness and innocence.

Simple sounds and visual effects make the film particularly engaging. Fireworks become a symbol of a disjointed sexual eruption. The acting is also very effective. Dickinson, who is British, mastered a perfect Brooklyn accent. His very own sexuality became a matter of public interest. Is the teen living an ambiguous life just like in the film, or is his sexuality well resolved; and is he gay, straight or bisexual? Of course the answer is not relevant, and so I’m not going to reveal it. And I know you’re not going to look it up because you’re not the slightest bit curious, right? I thought so.

This very dirty American film also delves with a number of issues very pertinent to the 21st century. One of them is the toxic effect that technology can have on gay and bisexual men’s ability to develop relationships. Sex becomes mostly dehumanised and desensitised, feelings are banalised and even the interaction becomes dangerous (in the sense of physical integrity). Young males are particularly vulnerable to the notion that one can engage in gay sex without being gay.

The film also reveals that there’s still a stigma attached to homosexuality, and interestingly it’s the female (Simone) who disseminates the most old-fashioned prejudice: two women together is “sexy”, while two men together is simply “gay”, she explains with a grimace. There’s also a “gay” test that consists of comparing the length of your ring finger with your pointer finger. And it’s 100% accurate!

Beach Rats is out in cinemas across the UK on Friday, November 24th, and the following week on BFI Player (2017). On Mubi on Sunday, January 22nd (2023)